On this 3rd day, the elements of fire and water may clash or play.
It is a day for reconcile.
A day to settle our debts.
It is a day to resolve disequilibrium.
To do this, we acknowledge our karmic entanglements, and disengage from their destructive recycling of shame, judgment and guilt.
Toj is the day to honor and give thanks to our rise and falls. To seek refuge from within, in preparation to go fearlessly without.